MENíS COMING OUT SUPPORT
This is a note to any married man who is struggling with his sexuality.
I am sorry that you are having a difficult time with the sexual issue and may need support or help. I have some wonderful men who have lived through this experience and moved on to a fulfilling life who would be happy to correspond with you. I have no doubt in my mind that you deeply love your wife. This is not about loving her--this is about knowing yourself.
Sometimes in life, no matter how honorable your intentions are, and no matter how much you love your wife, you are caught in a trap because sexuality is not a choice you can make. It's something that you are born with, and no matter how hard you try to change those feelings, they do not go away, but continue to fester and grow as the years go on. Coming to terms with this can be one of the most difficult steps in life, but you owe it to both of you to try to do this.